Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Monday, June 27, 2011
varied thoughts
Everyone's got some baggage. Its a part of life. But like anything else, Its just easier when there is someone to give you a hand with it.
Saturday, June 25, 2011
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Tactful Translation
What is said; and below, what is probably meant
Gee, it sure is getting late, and I've got an early morning tomorrow.
I want to go home now.
Please excuse my yawning; it's been a really tough week.
You bore me to tears.
You've led such a different life than I have!
We have nothing in common.
There are so many sides to your personality.
You sure seemed nicer when I first saw you.
I've been in such a time crunch these days, I never have time for the fun stuff.
What a waste of time!
Your photo doesn't do you justice.
You look nothing like your picture.
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Thursday, June 16, 2011
Modern Guide to Arranged Marriage - Part 1
Finished your studies, landed a job, and settled down? Like most other guys, marrying will probably be the next thing on your agenda. But, the dynamics of an arranged marriage have changed. What are the realities of this age-old tradition are, for a new generation.
Nowadays, parents simply suggest the person they feel is suitable for their son or daughter. Only if their child approves (after interacting with him or her), do things move ahead. Also, children are now increasingly taking the initiative to find their own partners. The number of people putting up their profiles at matrimonial sites is a case in point. So, children are now 'arranging' their own marriages.
By the new-age definition, an arranged marriage is just a 'set-up'. Parents introduce their children to each other, who meet and may even date for some time. Then, if and when they are ready, they get married.
What are you looking for?
Who you will marry is one of the most important decisions you will make. Some questions that crop up include: What sort of a girl do I marry? Will she adjust to my family? How can I decide just by meeting her a few times? When should I marry? What if I make the wrong choice?
Take a pen and paper and list the attributes you are looking for in a girl. For example, educational achievements, profession, appearance (looks, height, weight), etc. You might not find the 'perfect' girl, but you will have a fair idea of what you are looking for. Qualities to look out for include maturity and responsibility, a positive attitude toward life, commitment to the relationship, emotional openness, integrity and high self-esteem.
More Later
Monday, June 6, 2011
Chess is a game in which each party has its own singular objective even as it engages the other; a mid-game in which a struggle develops and intensifies and bits and pieces of each side are lost, both sides diminished ; an end-game in which one traps and paralyzes the other; Much Like a relationship.
The process of meeting someone new is much like playing a new tournament. You may win or lose, but each time you give in your best with the intention of winning; and if you may even lose, the hope to win the championship mustn't dwindle.
tip
re-quoting a tip for all those out there in the search for a life partner:
'find someone who is educated- at least they would appreciate what you do and what entails the hard work. the last thing thing you want is to come back to someone who doesn't understand what you do'
one cannot spend their life with someone who doesn't appreciate what you do in the first place.
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