The process of finding the right match is usually initiated by the parents and the extended family, once you are deemed to be professionally, financially or socially well-settled; This hold good for both men and women. As most Indian families would consider, it would be on account of these 3 factors, that one would find a ‘suitable match’. However, the process has taken an unexpected, worldly  turn in today’s very urbanised context. While the platform still remains the same- of parents, friends or families ‘setting-you-up’ to meet someone who may be considered a suitable life partner for you, the approach has been transformed to extremely pragmatic, often to the point of being hard-nosed and impersonal. And at this juncture, it is important to keep in mind the bigger picture- of happiness and therefore, it is crucial to stay who you are.